The modern lifestyle burdens people with conflicts stemming from stress and wounds in the mind. People make various efforts to resolve conflicts, but the

 problems of human relationships continue to expand. It is imperative that we speculate on the issue of conflicts and research the methods of healing in this

 reality of so many efforts failing to solve the problem.

First, we must reflect on whether we feel we are being healed when actually we are in the process of 'killing' our mind. There is a clear difference between the

 healing for a temporary diversion or refreshment and the healing for treating the wounds of mind. It can be a 'killing' to treat the wounds when a diversion is

 needed, and to divert or refresh oneself when a treatment is needed.

Most lectures, training courses, broadcasting programs, counseling sessions, speeches, and books are healing for a temporary diversion. A number of experts

 have studied on the methods of healing of the wounds in the mind, but have only developed the methods of diversion and refreshment without the treatment of

 the hurt feelings. When a person who needs to be treated for wounds in the mind is continuously exposed to diversion and refreshment, he or she suffers from

 a serious psychological crisis or pursues only pleasure and enjoyment.

Many experts give lectures, provide training courses, and make speeches trying to heal people through wise sayings, maxims, and pleasant and good words.

 They might make one feel good at the moment, but they could be the worst thing for one's mind and psychology. 'A good thing is not always a good thing' and it must be borne in mind that psychological problems can be caused by not clearly distinguishing between the right and wrong things to do.

Some experts are convinced that their methods are healing people without understanding whether what they say is for healing or for 'killing'. There are also

 many people who face worse psychological difficulties, or become pleasure seekers without knowing whether what they do and think is for healing or for

 'killing' . Thus, it seems urgent that the principles of the operation of the human mind and psychology be known to as many people as possible, experts or not.