When a woman teacher counsels a boy and the contents are negative, the boy considers the teacher as an enemy. The boy becomes interested in the teacher
when the contents are positive. When the teacher counsels two boys at the same time and the contents are positive, they just remember the teacher as a good
teacher instead of an object of fun and pleasure with interest. Men teachers are advised to counsel two girls at the same time since individual conference may
lead the girl to become interested in the teacher.
[Question] How can teachers act in front of boys?
[Answer] Boys or men have the habit of eradicating negative moods and getting immersed into fun and pleasure. It is important for teachers to control them and
keep balance between them. It is recommended that boys mingle together and control one another.
[Question] What happens when a girl perceives a man teacher as a man?
[Answer] When a girl thinks that she likes a man teacher as a man, she will keep reinforcing her emotions. She will develop wounds when she thinks that the
man teacher doesn't like her back.
[Question] Is it OK that girls and boys have good feelings for teachers without making any move?
[Question] it should be OK. They may study very hard for that subject to look good to the teacher. However, teachers must avoid to form any personal or
close relationships with students. They should not meet students without legitimate reason outside class or school. When the situation forces them to meet
outside class, they must be accompanied by other people.