When girls talk and advise among themselves about problems, all of them participating in the discussion share and accumulate wounds. they can play together 

and talk about fun things together sharing positive emotions, but sharing negative emotions necessarily results in wounds in girls. When they have worries 

and problems, they must consult professionals.  

     Children as well as adults must accurately understand about the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology. If you are in a situation where you 

must advise other girls or women or seek advice from them, you can find some way to avoid the situation since getting involved in giving and getting advice 

may negatively affect both parties.  

     Also, counselors who do not understand how human mind and psychology operate can aggravate the counselee's condition not matter how hard they try.  

They may apply their own thought standards based on their own knowledge and experience in counseling without knowing the fundamental and essential 

components of human mind and psychology.  

[Question] When I was in middle school, my teacher found out about what was going on in my life while counseling my friend. Then, the teacher told 

me everything about what she knew about me during the counseling session for me. I completely lost trust for both my friend and my teacher. 

[Answer] The teacher took advantage of your friend for counseling you, which was a very dangerous and destructive behavior. Counselors who don't understand 

the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology can hurt many people with good intention. It is imperative that teachers should also learn how human 

mind and psychology operate.