Conflicts and problems young adults experience is closely related with parents attitudes and behaviors during the phase of the formation of self-identity. If parents do every 

little thing for children during this phase of psychological development, it is likely that children have lived according to parents' thought standards instead of their own. Children 

may have accorded with parents' standards in every aspect and they have not had opportunities to build their own standards through trials and errors. Then, they have 

difficulties when they have to start pursuing their own self-actualization with their own standards, which they have not formed well during teenage years. They may not even 

know how to start since they don't have their own thought standards. 

     Everyone experiences problems and conflicts when they start and build something new. Young adults 

who have not experienced sufficient trials and errors suffer from conflicts even before they start anything as adults since they have not built healthy self-identity during 

teenage years. They may have to keep wandering not even knowing what is wrong with them. They have been following the direction their parents suggested all their life, 

so they don't know what they want and how to go about to achieve their own goals based on direct experiences of trials and errors.